No one likes to be used. It is a very bad feeling getting to know that you have been used. However, if you get to find out that you have been used, you should know that it is not your fault. Here are few ways to get over a guy who used you and become yourself again.
1. KNOW THAT IT IS NOT ABOUT YOU
No matter what happened, you should know that it was not your fault. You should not go around blaming yourself for what happened. If you go around blaming yourself, you will end up hurting yourself more and you will have a hard time getting over him.
2. DON’T PLAY THE VICTIM
A guy used you and left maybe because he could not commit or for some other reasons. He has his reasons why he did what he did so, you should not go about thinking it was cause of you he left. You should not think that there was something wrong with you.
3. KEEP THE DISTANCE
When your trying to get over someone that used you, you should completely avoid any form of communication and also learn to maintain a good distance from him. Distance is very important when trying to get over someone.
4. GO OUT AND ENGAGE IN ACTIVITIES
Go out, meet with friends, make new friends, go out for shopping, go watch a movie, go out for games, just do things that you love doing. Avoid staying alone all the time this way you would avoid thinking so much about him.
5. GUARD YOUR HEART AND MAKE SURE YOU DON’T GET PLAYED AGAIN
When you have completely healed and you think your ready to go into another relationship, you should be really careful so you don’t end up getting played again. Take your time to study him and know if he is the right one and also do not move too fast.